Stop it! Stop letting others lead you to a place where you don’t want to be. Whether it is a lover, family, friend, or boss. Stop letting people make decisions for your life. If you don’t want to do something, DON’T DO IT. If you would rather spend the weekend at home, in your pajamas, eating tacos in bed, instead of going out with friends or family, DO IT. If you want to simply work 9-5 and not strive to be a manager, then DO IT.
You are the only person who knows your needs, heart, and goals. You are the only person who has to answer for the choices you make in your life. You are the person who has to live with your decisions. Stop playing follow the leader and become the leader. Take control of your life.