Have you ever had the feeling that you are living the same script over and over again? Does it seem like no matter what you do, you always run into the same problem? Maybe it’s a boss who always gives you a hard time, so you find a new job only to find the same problems you were having with your old boss are the same problems you’re having with your new boss.
In your head, you are probably thinking, “Why does this keep happening to me?” You are probably thinking it’s everyone else who has the problem and not you.
The truth is, it is you. When you look at the situation, the common denominator is you. The reason you are constantly reliving the same script over and over again, with different people, is because there is a lesson that you need to learn but refuse to see or admit.
Maybe you need to stop being passive aggressive about your needs. Maybe you need to stand up for yourself more. Maybe you need to voice your opinions and stop bring a team player. Until you confront the issue, you will continue to relive the problem over and over again. It won’t matter if you change jobs or get a new boss because until you deal with the real issue, within yourself, you will continue to face the same problem over and over again. Same script, different cast.